If you don’t like how gypsies are seen, Next Christmas you’ll be my wife mug then check the ppl on that show, who represent your ppl. For the record, yes, gypsy is considered a slur by some. I like the word as I have known it to be defined,
Next Christmas you’ll be my wife mug
Judging by the comments on this photo and the shock and outrage at being topless in a park, the USA does seem like another planet, a backwards, prudish one ruled by religion. but you’ve taken the meaning of the word totally wrong. It means a carefree way of life and, as pointed out above, Next Christmas you’ll be my wife mug it’s not considered derogatory in the UK, a lot of folk make serious money from My Big Fat Gypsy wedding for US white folk.
How to get it?
it has one meaning, derived from you know exactly what. It’s always absolutely not appropriate for you, or I or any other white person too use. Only ignorant, entitled white folk think it’s “endearing “, has 2 meanings, and feel comfortable using amongst themselves, other confused white kids. You knew better, and that was a very very poor analogy. She used the word in a genuinely kind way.